Let Me Reach with Kim Saeed

If not today

First, if you’ve finally left your Narcissistic spouse, I applaud you.  Though there is still a way to go in the battle for your freedom, this is the only first step that will help lead you there.

While there are different types and subtypes of the Narcissistic personality (Vulernable v Invulnerable and NPD v BPD, for example), they usually fit the same blueprint in their reaction to being left by a partner.  They’ll also take into account what’s always worked for them before.  Therefore, one can generally expect some combination of the following outcomes:

1)       Pretend this is just another quarrel – Though the Narcissist might think you’re really serious this time, he or she will give you the impression that they think it’s just another of your typical disagreements, especially if it’s not the first time you’ve moved in with Mom (or a sibling, friend, etc.).

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