When people think of habits their mind goes straight to bitten fingernails, pushing a project to the last minute, or being just a few minutes late to everything. It isn’t often that we hear the word habit and our brain lists all of the positive quirks we’ve created over our lifetimes. As time passes we can become very resistant to change, so it is important that we create positive habits within a marriage. That way while we are constantly learning how to be a better spouse we can have good habits to make the journey a little easier.

I would like to take you through what I consider to be an ideal day of healthy habits for marriage.

Let’s start with that alarm clock that plays what used to be your favorite song, until it started waking you up at 6:00 am. Until actions become habits, we are faced with…

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